Conscious Relationship Counsellor
Helping women heal relational patterns, create more conscious relationships, and come home to themselves through awareness, presence, and emotional truth.
What This Work Is
You already understand your patterns. You can name your triggers. You know where your boundaries should be. But knowing and embodying are different territories entirely.
This work meets you in the gap—where your nervous system still reacts before your wisdom can respond. Where you intellectually understand healthy relating but find yourself repeating familiar dynamics. Where you want to speak your truth but something in your body shuts down.
We work with what lives beneath the understanding. The somatic patterns. The attachment templates. The parts of you that learned to protect in ways that no longer serve. Not to eliminate them, but to integrate them consciously.
This is relational work—practiced in real time, in the space between us, in the moments where your old strategies surface and we meet them with curiosity instead of judgment. It's shadow work that doesn't bypass the light. It's nervous system repair that honours the intelligence of your defences.
The goal isn't to become someone new. It's to embody who you already are when you're not performing, protecting, or proving your worth.
I'm, Melissa Evans-Snow
Inner work, Somatic facilitator, Conscious Relationship Counsellor, and Attachment Specialist.
I work with women from all walks of life - mothers, healers, entrepreneurs, those in traditional careers and those forging their own paths.
For 7 years, I've trained extensively with world-class mentors including Peter Levine, Richard Schwartz, and Dr. Scott Lyons in integrative somatic trauma therapy, Internal Family Systems, and attachment theory.
But this work isn't just professional for me - it's deeply personal. I know what it's like to hide in closets, crying until you can't breathe. To sacrifice your most important relationships while chasing approval that might never come. To be trapped by anxiety and patterns that no amount of understanding could break.
Until everything changed.
My work brings you into deep self-awareness and embodied practice so you no longer settle for relationships that require you to abandon yourself. Whether you're navigating family dynamics, partnership, or your relationship with yourself, you can have more.
What I guide you through when you work with me...
Shadow Work
Uncover the unconscious motivations driving your patterns - the parts you've been taught to hide, the gold buried in what you've rejected. We integrate these parts consciously so they stop running your whole life from shadows.
Somatic Emotional Integration
Learn to track sensations and energy as they move through your body. We work with the natural rhythms of activation and discharge to help you complete emotional cycles that have been stuck or interrupted, restoring your capacity for resilience.
Relational Integration
Practice speaking your truth without collapsing or attacking. Set boundaries that come from your body, not guilt or shame. Learn to repair relationships instead of retreat, to stay open and curious instead of getting defences.
Attachment Patterns
Identify how your early relational templates are showing up now. Understand the root of your most painful dynamics - the people-pleasing, the over-functioning, the desperate need for approval - so you can choose new responses.
More questions?
Let's connect on a call
This is to book a consultation call to see if my work is right for you. If it’s not, I’ll recommend other resources to help you in your healing journey.
Before booking a call you’ll need to answer a few questions.
Join The Collective
A twice monthly online women’s group for grounded growth, relational awareness, and embodied community.
The Collective is a steady place to land. A small circle of women who gather in honesty, in rhythm, and in relationship. This is where inner work becomes lived, shared, and supported.
The next season of The Collective begins January 2026.
Client love
Let Others Inspire You.
“Working with Melissa felt like exhaling for the first time in years. I’ve spent so much of my life bracing, trying to manage how I come across, trying to hold everything together. In this space, I didn’t have to do that. I could bring the messy parts, the scared parts, the unsure parts—and it was all welcome. That’s what made it possible to actually shift things. I’m learning how to stay with myself now, even when things feel hard. That’s huge for me.””
“I was nervous about being in a group at first, but honestly, hearing other women speak out loud what I thought I was the only one feeling... that changed me. The way Melissa guided us felt steady and real. Nothing was forced. No one was trying to fix each other. It was more like: let’s meet ourselves here, together. I left feeling more connected—to myself and to other women—than I’ve felt in a long time.”